What do you do when the summer time comes and the women start showing off their bodies a little more and you start to feel like you really want to get a girlfriend or just have some casual fun?  Most guys don't do a thing - they just think about how nice it would be if they could do something.  Make this summer one to have some fun.  If you are good with women,  then go get some.  If you are not - why not take the time to figure out what you have to do so that you can become good with women.

Wanna start?  Read this post:  Female Psychology Secrets

After you read that post,  you should be thinking a little bit different.  You should be realizing that women don't have to be out of your league just because they look attractive and you should realize that if you know how to have a good time and how to flirt with women - you should do just fine and those summer time dreams have a chance to become a reality.  So,  if you are going to set one "bad boy" goal this summer - make that goal to be to have some fun.  It is worth it.

Make a list of 10 places that you can go to meet women and choose one of those places each weekend.

Challenge yourself to take action and talk to some of those girls you would normally never talk to.  A good place to get started is at the beach.  Just a tip.
 
One of the many confusions that men have is where to go to meet women.  I mean,  if you don't know where to go to meet someone,  then you really don't stand much chance at mastering your social life,  do you?  There are many places that a guy can go to meet women,  but I am going to help you brainstorm a few that should help you figure out what to do.

1)  Online dating websites.

These are always going to be a good option,  I just would not make it your ONLY option.  I think that is the mistake that men make when they try to use a dating site.  It becomes their only option and if they don't succeed there,  they don't feel like they are going to succeed anywhere.  Like anything else,  it all depends on the women that you meet and the way that you present yourself.  If you don't present yourself like a guy who is interesting and who can give a woman some fun,  then you probably are not going to have much success at all even if there are tons of women in your area that you can choose from.

2)  Your local bar scene.

We all know that this is an option,  it's just that most guys don't choose the right bars.  They go where the guys hang out,  not where the women hang out.  When you are trying to meet women at bars,  you have to go where they go.  That may mean that you end up at the kind of bar that you normally would not go to,  but that is more than worth it if you are able to end up meeting a woman you can have a relationship with,  right?

3)  Other cities nearby.

This is an option that most guys are not going to explore.  They would rather complain about the fact that they cannot meet women and they won't do a thing about it.  If you are SERIOUS about meeting women,  then you are going to have to sometimes travel to where the women are.  If that means that you need to drive an hour away,  then so be it.  You might just find that going an hour or two away opens up new doors for you and allows you to meet women you would not have had you not ventured outside of your city.
 
In today's world,  a lot of relationships start off at the work place.  There really isn't any reason why that should not be one of the many options that you are exploring if you want to get a girlfriend.  However,  there are some things that you need to think about before you start to hit on that hottie you have your eye on at the job.

Things like:

  1. Will it get weird for you or for her if you ask her out and she says no to you?
  2. Will you be able to break up with her if you realize that she's not really someone you want to be in a long term relationship with?
  3. Can you handle it if you are dating her and you see another co worker flirting with her a bit?

There is plenty of drama that can come with dating a female co worker.  You have to realize that before you get into any work place dating situation.  As long as you can handle what comes with the territory,  then there shouldn't be any reason why you can't date someone at work.

Just make sure that you aren't going to lose your job over it.